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"To accept these years of taking stock and letting go." That is Karen's magic. We're a year apart. I hope to be like her someday.

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Her questionnaire is so quotable! There are so many inspiring lines.

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I am 81 and really enjoying it thus far. There is a freedom doing whatever I want, whenever I want.

I still cook, and bake, but not when I don't want to.

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Loved this -- I was transported by her words and the richness behind them. Thank you.

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Oct 31Liked by Sari Botton

What luminous and beautiful responses, what generosity and wisdom. So many graceful turns of phrase, so many times I had to pause and breathe and let myself float through the oceanic profundity of a statement. Wonderful, wonderful, and I can't wait to read Karen's book of essays.

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Oct 30Liked by Sari Botton

God, this was so beautiful. I'm so glad I caught this one. I'll be seeking Karen's work now.

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Oct 30Liked by Sari Botton

I so enjoyed this. Beautifully and thoughtfully written, and at 64, so much of it resonated with me. I was unfamiliar with her as a writer, so this has made me want to read more of her works. Thank you for this!

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I am just turned 70 and have noticed a big change especially in this past year. There is longevity in my family but I’m not certain I want that. I loved this essay and related in several ways. All I really want to do with what’s left is travel before I am too frail to do so!

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So beautifully written!

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Felt the full sweep of your life so far, somehow, in these words! Excited for you to keep going!

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Oct 30Liked by Sari Botton

Oh, thank you for this.

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To continue,

I don't have to do things unless I need or want it done by someone else.

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I too am 68 and continually ask how that could possibly have happened. I never allowed myself a chance to be who I wanted to be - out of obligations to my Mother, who was widowed at 48, and then my husband, who wants control of most things, when I was younger. Now that I am this age I am taking as much rope as I can hold without making the mistake of hanging myself with it, which happened when I was 55. Experimenting on here with writing is my tool for freedom.

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oh, that sour taste of memory! It is a common flavor for those of us who, as youngsters, had sweetness swiped away. thank you for your good words.

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The image of Karen's mother trying to get rid of the coal dust ...amazing!

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Beautiful writing💜

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Oct 30Liked by Sari Botton

Loved this. Karen’s voice is so clear and provides amazing perspective. Thank you. I look forward to reading her book.

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