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Um. Regarding the Psychology Today piece: "While some women may delight in feeling removed from the "male gaze," others feel their sexiest and most authentic selves after menopause."

Isn't she forgetting moi? I feel delighted being removed from the "male gaze," but ALSO at my sexiest/most authentic self. C'mon. They're not mutually exclusive unless you depend on the male gaze to validate you.

xox to everyone who is sexy and happy invisible. I can't possibly be the only one.

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