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There is so much goodness here (No surprise. I've followed Karen for awhile and she just knows what's up.), but my favorite part is her making the distinction between aging and stress. That we can't avoid aging, but that we can constructively address stress and strive to be radiant. Amen to that! And Karen is a real inspiration in that regard. She IS absolutely radiant.

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Agree on all of this!

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You're so lovely, thank you! ❤️

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Feb 21Liked by Sari Botton

Sari, this has been one of my favorite questionnaires/interviews yet! "Radiance"....what a lovely concept. This distinction between stress and aging is profound, and it kind of blew my mind. I turn 62 next month and it feels like a big age—bigger than others in so many ways—but really, it's mostly that this last year has been enormously stressful with a big move and many losses. I can see after reading this that my radiance light has dimmed, much more than I have aged. I'm going to set about fixing that! Inspiring read. Thank you to you both.

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Thanks for your kind words! And yes, as I say in the book, my friend calls it having your "pilot light go out." It's all about the pilot light! 😄

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Thank you for relighting my pilot light with your wisdom and radiance! :-)

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Feb 21Liked by Sari Botton

This may be the single best interview of all the fine interviews published here. So much to think about. Plus, I am predisposed to love a woman who wroteTWO books with joy in the title. Joy is my favorite word. Favorite thing to strive for. One can find joy in tiny things, every day. Thank you so much for this.

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Thank you! And joy is everything, man -- self-compassion, resistance, gratitude, love -- it's EVERYTHING. ❤️

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Thank you for sharing this joyful interview! Reading it meant a lot to me. I am 35 years old, a lawyer, an eldest daughter of a Puerto Rican mother and a white father, and contorting and worrying are familiar grounds. So I loved the reminder that this helps no one! And that we have agency in defining the many things we are. Growing older has certainly helped me, and Karen Walrond has me excited about whatever lies ahead.

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❤️✨💥✊🏾

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This was a wonderful interview--it inspired me to order Karen's new book--and I suspect I'll be ordering some additional copies for my friends who are turning 60 this year.

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Oh, nice! It thrills me when Oldster posts lead people to order books...

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Aw -- thank you so much! I hope you and your friends enjoy it. ❤️

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Feb 21Liked by Sari Botton

Precious wisdom and magical advise, indeed! Recently while reading Karen's book, Radiant Rebellion, (with lots of highlighted passages) I uncovered so much self love, aging validation and joy through her amazing work. Also, I love the bit about raising a little hell because it reminds me to rise up and be comfortable in my convictions, with my silver hair and all :)

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Thank you so much for reading! ❤️

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Feb 21Liked by Sari Botton

Karen's responses are so life-giving! Our world would be a much better place if we had the curiosity and self-compassion that she has. I'm feeling so inspired by her wisdom and joy!

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❤️❤️❤️

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So many nuggets of knowledge and wisdom here. Her confidence and self-assuredness that comes with age really comes through. Great interview!

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I agree. This was such a good interview. Inspiring!

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❤️❤️❤️

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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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That was one awesome read. Tomorrow, Feb 23rd I turn 67. Reading this has challenged how I think about and have thought about and used the word 'old' as a synonym for bad, or stupid or past it. And that used about myself. The delightful words and stories here in this read will have me turning 67 a tad different in my thoughts about age. Thank you so much for these interviews, and thank you Karen Walrond. Brilliant!

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Thank you so much -- and happy birthday!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Thanks Karen. Thank you for being part of my keeping young.........inspiring words. Gonna look for that book!

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Why do I feel 10 times more beautiful, and yes! *radiant* after reading this? Thank you for sharing your empowering, compassionate insights and perspective, Karen Walrond. I want to nurture myself on some more. So glad you wrote a book! ❤️

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Thank YOU! ❤️

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Love this, and the book is phenomenal!

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❤️❤️❤️

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always inspiring— i am privileged to know this radiant human irl, she is magical! 💕💖

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Back at you, lovely one! ❤️

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Feb 21Liked by Sari Botton

Inspiring, and so wise!

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I LOVED reading this - and chuckles out loud at your '56 and a half', I totally remember that as a kid. Here's to us all feeling as 'curious, powerful, visible, and relevant as ever, and leave it at that. 😊'

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Amen, and thank you! ❤️

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One of the highlights of going to my first Erma Bombeck Writers' conference was having the opportunity to speak to Karen for a few glorious minutes face to face (after an amazing workshop on the Lightmaker's Manifesto!) I could hear her speaking throughout this interview and it reminded me of how generous she was with her time and experience. Also I loved the reference to the call-out by Ashton Applewhite (whose work I'll go find after I finish this comment!) I love the ways the layers of what we've always thought and believed get peeled back when we least expect it. It's like getting a gentle little tutorial about complacency. Thank you so much for this!

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Thank you so much for your kind words! And Ashton is AMAZING. She has a wonderful TED talk -- you should check it out, and it's the reason I reached out to her to interview her for this book. She's fantastic!

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I'm on her website now ♥️

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Wow, I'm so glad to learn about Karen. I've ordered her book. I wish she lived next door :-)

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Thank you so much -- I hope you enjoy it! ❤️

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