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Jun 26Liked by Sari Botton

“Moving here to the mountains, somehow the way time was held in plants and place, and I could attune to micro seasons seemed like the time in which I wanted to live. Or, in which I came alive, but also in which all time comes alive to me outside of linear time.”

I love this experience and description of finding your place. I feel this too in the mountains of the west, as if I am immersed in the land.

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Nice.

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I am just this moment in LA and someone a friend was talking about the mountains around Altadena like this yesterday and I think we are going to do a chapbook a linked project on our places....

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Jun 26Liked by Sari Botton

"This feels like some constellation that I move in, which includes land and place and neighbors, the deer nearby, the plants, the special rare ones that I prize—the gentians—and the weeds, too."

Beautiful! Thank you Jennifer. Putting into words how I feel.

How bout an interview with Tom and Bridget!?

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I had the same thought!

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I'm totally into this idea!!

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I would totally interview Tom and Bridget. They are amazing. Their stories even more so...

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Hi Jennifer. I love reading the Oldster Questionnaire responses, and I think yours is my favorite so far, the way you connect to time, place and the dreams of your mother. If it makes you feel better (probably not necessary) I wrote and had published my first Oldster Magazine essay (and memoir) at age 73.

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<3

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Ditto what Sari says <3 <3 <3

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As someone with a dream of quitting my job to become a 56-year-old dancer and circus artist I loved all of this, esp the parts about being a middle aged athlete ❤️

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Yes!

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<3 <3 (and more) and ditto. Yes!

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If I could get a Fulbright or something for this I would totally do it

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Yes, that would be amazing.

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Loved every part..so perfectly flawed yet more beautiful that way!

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"I am into sports." Yes stay active. It's simple logic: The dead stop moving. So whatever ya do, don't stop moving : )

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No wonder you have thrived as an art critic! This is a great piece. Can totally relate to the male dominated art scene back then, I was a Fine Arts major at UCI (the Orange Bubble elite) and it was exactly like that. Women were dismissed. They had a one semester art history teacher come in from UCB who was handling our Modern Art lecture series. I loved it! I wrote my end of term paper on the work of R. Crumb. And she gave me an A+++. I think that, besides John Paul Jones teaching etching, which I loved, who encouraged me, were about the only two positives I can remember from two years finishing my degree there.

I completely understand knowing you are a better art critic than an artist. I think a lot of successful artists are only acknowledged because of their connections and the ability to spin tales about the significance of their work. A shame for the shadow artists who paint their souls out.

Thanks for the interesting read. May life give you depth and meaning, compassion and love.

Meridee Thompson

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So well written. Such a diverse life. I have two daughters in their early fifties. One went through the goth phase ( as did my36 year old son) and my other daughter was an academic Whois now a nurse. Reading this I see you as someone who can do whatever you put your mind to. So maybe go for being a ski instructor. Life is short

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A delightful read, throughly enjoyed it. Thank you 🙏

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Jun 29Liked by Sari Botton

"So, it’s strange to be an age that once felt old and distant ... Now this age does not feel as I once perceived it."

So true! When I was little, I thought of people in their 50s as doddering and ancient. I had no idea how different this decade would actually be!

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