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Feb 8, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

Gayle's writing has always been a pleasure to read, and this is no exception. I would say she is a mensch, but I guess that is sexist.

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I hereby declare mensch to be gender-neutral.

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I'm happy to be called a mensch--thank you!

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Lovely answers, Gayle! 💖

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Thank you so much, dear Cheryl!

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Feb 8, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

This is a heartwarming read and I am also off to grab your book! I guffawed at the nod to zoom neck.🤣 Put me in mind of Ephron’s “I Feel Bad About My Neck”! I read that so long ago and tried to take preemptive maintenance action. Didn’t last long and now, as I approach middle 60s, I’m in a rip tide of “oh, SHIT!” and “meh.”🙌🏻

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Feb 8, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

A beautiful essay about embracing the change that aging brings.

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Did we just not notice our necks before Zoom??? I totally agree about the turtleneck making me a better listener instead of the distraction of a wrinkly neck AND multiple chins. Oy.

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This was beautiful and inspiring. Looking forward to checking out her work.

P.S. I hope I look like that at 54!

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<3

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Feb 8, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

Thanks for introducing me to this wonderful human and writer!

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She's a good one!

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I'm so grateful to be included in beloved Oldster--thanks so much, Sari!!

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So wonderful to (finally!) get to your questionnaire, and on your pub week. Thank you again for your patience. <3

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What a great piece. Trotting off to order your book!

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OMG! ... (as I sit reading this in my turtleneck, after having given a presentation at a hybrid in-person/zoom meeting today.) Your writing and images dance over me like water in a shallow, pebbled stream. I'm ordering your new book as soon as I post this. Thank you!

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