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Nov 24, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

I will be going through my bookshelves and choosing good books in good shape that I’m ready to let go. People who visit my house can choose a wrapped book and get a surprise!

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I have just gone on Medicaid because the facility I am in requires it sooooI have zilch for presents this year!! Decided I would go thru all the delicious catalogues I receivefrom all corners of the catalogue world... from Harry and David to the Museum of modern art gift shop to the Signals and Gump offerings!! I will carefully and as artistically as possible, take pictures of various items I would love to give to my family, friends ,etc!!! I will then send that picture with an expansive explination as to why they are receiving such a marvelously generous gift from me!! I chose this way around my present bothersome financial situation and found it to have no cost involved because I would do it through the marvelous section of this wee i-phone called the text button. It will delight folk who will be amazed at the manner in which I have thrown caution to the winds and "sent "them wonderfully extravagant gifts or tiny, small things" that I knew would delight!. I , on the other hand, would get the exquisite gift of giving them things suited just for them...gifts chosen to remember special moments shared wih them accompanied by a note would warm their heart and mine!! What more could I desire than this for the Christmas Season?!!

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I'll be looking for a necklace that says Crone!

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I have stopped seasonal gifting and started just buying the thing when I see it and think "Oh, this person would LOVE this."

The most recent thing I bought was a travel set of watercolors for a friend who is always on the go but likes to do some watercolor sketching, he didn't have to go kit and now he does.

For myself, well, I am happily in place where I don't feel like I need/want much. But seeds for my vegetable garden would be grand, or wildflower seeds for my now lawn-free front yard. I'd love that.

Along with the obvious: books, books, books. Also, books. In all directions.

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A donation to Meals on Wheels! Or better yet, volunteer! You meet some amazing people.

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I make homemade olive oil granola and package it in craft paper coffee bags. The NYT has many good recipes. It’s decadent and well received.

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We’re starting our gifting season with a Masterclass subscription for our family. Looking forward to doing Amy Poehler’s class on Improv with our teen daughter:

https://youtu.be/nSFWkf9p4cQ?si=M7-zjh90dkI-WmNb (and then giving a gift subscription to another family member.)

Always looking for ways to give back, which really is the best gift to receive.

This community is a gift too. Nothing like an open thread on Oldster... So many ideas!

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Nov 24, 2023·edited Nov 24, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

Grandkids are getting subscriptions to Highlights (and a bunch of other things).

I want a clarinet, a bicycle, and an Ooni pizza oven. Donations cheerfully accepted. I have been good all year long.

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Nov 24, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

I couldn't afford to buy for my adult children this year but I bought personalized blankets for my six grandchildren. They range in age from one to 16 years old. I think they're going to love them!

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I have gotten into painting watercolors, so, I will be gifting some small ones in Christmas cards. I will be asking for watercolor paper, brushes and basic accessories for my Christmas stocking! 🥰

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Now that I'm an oldster with a family of mostly oldsters we do a secret Santa for all the grownups. I love just getting one gift...less pressure...less waste....more joy.

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an indian tin full of spices is always appreciated

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Giving my grandkids (ages 6 and 8) weekend pool passes for January-March so they can swim and use up some energy!

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Nov 24, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

I always gift my (now adult) kids squishy comfy clothes (traditional from “pajama night” from the 8 days of Chanukah...we always themed them). Other than that we tend to gift “experiences” as for receiving...hmmm tougher. The hubs and I this year bought each other tickets to London. Feels like all I could wish for...time and adventure! Happy holidays!

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I have been “threatening” to begin my first sourdough baking experience for friends, and now with my starter in tact, I will have time to put my skills to the test. Fingers crossed that all goes well.

And yes, the Barbra memoir is also on my list.

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Some of my special people are getting a One Line A Day 5-Year Journal. Iv started my own, and Im on day 67 of my own entries and enjoying the process even though Ive never been a big diary or journal person. Each page has a place for several lines about that date and as year 2 and 3 , 4 and 5 roll around you can reflect on your life and changes. Check with me again in 5 years and Ill let you know how it works out. $15.

https://www.amazon.com/Modern-One-Line-Day-Five-Year/dp/1452164622

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