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Mar 15, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Emily Rubin

My mother was also a war bride. She wore the required girdle and bra with pointy cups. My father at some point bought her Channel number 5. She wore a less expensive scent on most days. Channel was for special nights out. It went with the fire engine red nail polish she wore on these occasions. I remember her scents so well. I have a handkerchief of hers that still smells of Channel. I don’t know what will happen when the scent fades enough that I can no longer detect it.

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Mar 13, 2022Liked by Sari Botton, Emily Rubin

My Jewish mother was also born in 1921 lived in New York City (where I was born and raised) married in 1943, and was a lover of Chanel No 5 so your essay really spoke to me. My mom never left the house without a girdle, makeup, hair and nails done, and a dab of the 5 - even if she was just to walk a block to the bank. I'm so glad the Chanel has survived, but that girdle did not!

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That brought a tear to my eye. Wonderfully well put together. She sounds amazing, your mother. I love the parallel timelines. Enjoy her and a very Happy Birthday to her.

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Mar 6, 2022Liked by Emily Rubin

Emily, lovely essay. After reading it this morning, I did a single squirt of my bottle of Chanel No 5 that's been tucked away in the medicine cabinet since the pandemic began. Thank you!

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So evocative. I love the lifting up of the sexuality of our mothers. Mine died at 99 in 2006 after a lifetime of batting her eyelashes. I share your memories of lying awake when my parents came home after a night of partying. Also the corsets (without underwear in my mother's case) and she was born in 1907.

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Mar 4, 2022Liked by Emily Rubin

So sensual! I want to buy a bottle to add to my enjoyment of your memories

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Loved this! So evocative. I have my own memories of Chanel #5. What Chanel should do in a campaign slogan is have women write in their favorite memories of the perfume. I bet there would be so many!

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Emily- a lovely piece and I'm sure that your mom is pleased that you have these wonderful memories of her and your father! Fran Colombo

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Mar 3, 2022Liked by Emily Rubin

Wow. What a wonderful piece. I grew up in a family where my mother was allergic to everything, including fragrances, and no perfume was ever allowed in our house. But once in a while, as a babysitting teenager, I'd go to a home where the woman was applying perfume for her night out. I absolutely loved everything about that -- the little glass bottles, the romance, the specialness, and yes, the fragrances. Thanks for this evocative story!

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Mar 3, 2022·edited Mar 3, 2022Liked by Emily Rubin

So beautifully written...you brought back similar memories of my own mother, especially after she'd come home from a night on the town. I have her bottle of Chanel No. 5 and just took a whiff, evoking an even stronger sense of her. Fun trying to suss the notes you described...not sure I get the scent of fresh laundry, but I love that Coco did as it's also one of my favorites. Thanks for this lovely story, and a toast to your mother!

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Mar 3, 2022Liked by Emily Rubin

Thank you for this wonderful story.

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What a lovely, evocative piece.

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