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Feb 6, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

I love how time dissolves in the final passage, how the language swirls place, memory, relationships and music into one bottomless moment. Thank you!

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Feb 6, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

Great piece. It's always interesting to hear of people's first reactions to NYC. (I am a native fifth-gen New Yorker.) In Arizona and other intermountain west states, I meet baby boomers who had terrible first visits in the 1970s and got such a very bad opinion of the city that they never came back and say things like, "How can you be from New York? You're not rude and obnoxious like everyone I came across there." I've lived all over, and to me, New Yorkers are the nicest people in the U.S. -- people like Richard's cab driver, who sounds like some of my friends' fathers who drove taxis back then.

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Feb 6, 2023Liked by Richard Toon, Sari Botton

I love this Richard Toon! My favorite NYC memory is heading there for the weekend with my Mom in early 1972 as an 8th Grader. We got off on the bus at Greyhound and began walking with our suitcases to our hotel (The Roosevelt) up 42nd Street. It was an eye-opening experience. Cheers to you! Are you still in the U.S. or have you returned to the United Kingdom?

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Still in US. Now live a couple of hours north, on a farm road, but close by are many ex-NYC people.

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Wonderful layering of looking back at a time in the past and evoking the feelings of that person then and also sharing how the narrator feels now, in the moment of recollecting. Why some memories stick and others fade is also the subject and mystery.

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Feb 6, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

Great memory. The cafe at the Hotel Edison was a very cool place though :)

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Feb 6, 2023Liked by Sari Botton
Feb 6, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

An affordable place for tourists and Broadway workers. Another victim of gentrification.

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Lovely evocative writing - another city ruined by money. I'm particularly glad to find your piece as it it took me back to my first trip to NYC in February 1974 which was magical - and which I shall now find space for in End of the Line.

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Thanks very much for your comments. All b best, Richard

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Love the cab driver and Buddy Rich Big Band checking in at the hotel. The hotel scene--the music, all of it like a Hopper painting in words. I am happy to be one of your ex-NYC country neighbors.

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Feb 7, 2023Liked by Richard Toon

Loved the story of your cab ride, how lucky you were to have had that cabbie! 😉🙂

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Feb 7, 2023·edited Feb 7, 2023Author

Yes, it was a short ride around the block, but one that stayed with me.

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I was going to read the article later and about to delete the email, then I caught the taxi driver's advice. I went back to the beginning and read the entire essay. Needless to say, it made me smile and sent me back to my many memories of New York City, and of New Yorkers ...

Thanks Richard, for sharing your memory and sentiment!

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