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Than ks to all you kind people for your reassuring words.If Sari will have me, you'll herar from me again. Stay healthy and active,

SL

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Reading this essay at 73 was like taking a hike with a friend who had been waiting for me at the trailhead. I’m not much of a hiker anymore but I can still climb mountains in my mind, and Sidney is such a good companion. I loved the acorn in the boot and the apt encounter with “Birches,” a poem for the old or old at heart. I’m not a weeper but this poem always makes me cry. Today these tears of gratitude were for starting my day with a writer who made it new again.

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Mar 13, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

I had never heard of Sydney Lea, but as I read this piece, I was struck by how beautifully poetic his writing was. Duh. Thank you for featuring Lea and opening my mind to a little poetry.

I also made a mental note to think about how a sudden, catastrophic physical ailment can completely derail us. For Lea, it was the tick-borne illness. For my 92-year-old father (a world record holder master's swimmer), it was cracking a bone in his foot during a slightly off turn in the pool. It's like a sudden shock of awareness -- we were this, now we're this. Fear sets in. My father has never been in the pool again. I congratulate Lea on resuming his hikes, even if he has to sit periodically and admire the views.

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Mar 13, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

Thank you, Sydney! My 79-year-old husband and I amazed ourselves by keeping up with "kids" as young as 62 on a hiking trip in the Canadian Rockies in late September. Oh, the exhilaration when you realize you can still embark on vertical treks, and the glory when you reach a summit and feel ten years younger. Then there is the beauty of all that is around, an early snowfall included.

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I love reading oldster as a thirty-five year-old! This one has all the elements that draw me to these essays, even as I am in a different stage of life: a vision for what elegant aging can look like, finding beauty as we are inevitably forced to slow down, using reading and writing to process a life...thank you Sydney!

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Mar 13, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

A beautiful piece, makes me long to go rambling in my (very different, topographically) corner of the world. When the atmospheric rivers and record-breaking snowfall finally stop pummeling California and the West Coast, I'll dig out my sturdy boots. I will not be so lucky to find an acorn waiting for me but the green hills will be their own reward.

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Mar 13, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

Absolutely beautiful. The sense of fear around something you love — specifically walking — is something I can relate to. I was moved by both how this essay makes me appreciate what I can do now, at age 50, despite what I can’t, quite, and by the validation of what the future may hold, if I am fortunate.

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Mar 13, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

That was oh so quite beautiful and I just want to say thank you for bringing me a vision of cyclic life. Beginnings and endings and all the glory and mess of the in between.

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So happy to read these words from a beautiful soul. As usual, he's spot on. I llve the hikes I still can take at 66. I will cherish them more now.

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Mar 13, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

I love this. It is so beautiful.

I sent it to my dad - it reminds me of him.

Heart-aching comes to mind - the beautiful, sad, funny, cruel, loving moments of life that cause the heart to ache.

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Mar 18, 2023Liked by Sari Botton

Thank you sir! Your writing puts me in mind of the great Jim Harrison...a wonderful piece.

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Sydney's a stud. Love this dude.

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How wonderful! I wish to still be rambling through the woods at 80. If so, I will feel I have aged exactly the way I always hoped.

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This was a particularly special one. Thank you. Widely shared.

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Thank you, Sydney. I continue to try to get out in nature to "hike" and i am inspired by your essay to do more. I do walk when I play golf (Hate the carts) and that's about six miles for 18 holes. I'll count that. :) Thanks again.

David, 66.

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What a beautifully evocative piece. Thanks for the inspiration, I am right there on the trails with you 😊

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