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Erika Simonian's avatar

Thanks so much to all of you for taking the time to read this, and for all the lovely comments. There's nothing better than a great community of oldsters, for real.

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Sari Botton's avatar

<3

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Judith Henry Creative's avatar

Thank you for this sad, funny, poignant, and oh, so real story. Absolutely exquisite.

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Not The Enemy's avatar

First thing I read this morning. Erika Simonian's wonderful essay about a magazine subscription as her mother's ongoing gift, and her piano playing as a final gift to her mother, is heart-expanding. Thank you.

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Sari Botton's avatar

<3

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Ed Plunkett's avatar

In the autumn of 2013 my Mom asked what I wanted for Christmas, and I said a subscription to the New Yorker.

She died in early December of that year, and the first issue of my gift subscription arrived shortly after.

I've been a subscriber ever since.

My condolences for your loss.

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Book Wag's avatar

Wonderful. Thank you, Erika, for writing this piece. Thank you, Sari, for publishing it.

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Sari Botton's avatar

<3

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pam's avatar

I love The New Yorker and I love Oldster! I've discovered so many writers, artists, and other cool people that interest and inspire me and I really can't stop talking about it.

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Erika Simonian's avatar

Me too!

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Sari Botton's avatar

Oh, this is so nice to read!!! Thank you. <3

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Tracy Owens's avatar

I love this so much. I started buying this magazine at the Waldenbooks in the mall in Knoxville, Tenn., when I was 14.

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Deborah Underwood's avatar

OMG I love this so much. What a great Mom, so delightful. I love The New Yorker and have ever since my high school English teacher spoke about her admiration for the magazine. Everything about it is wonderful. I once bought a huge book of the New Yorker cartoons for a boyfriend who delighted in their humor as much as I did. And I enjoyed reading about the piano playing...just great. To be heartbroken over a breakup and to have your dear Mom suggest a subscription to the New Yorker is priceless, brilliant, made me weep with joy. I love your Mom! Thank you, Erika.

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Jen Ziegler's avatar

so right, it is a perfect and hilarious antidote, and i love her mom (and her!) too. :)

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Margot Clark-Junkins's avatar

Yes. Just yes. To all of it.

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Nancy Jainchill's avatar

Oh I loved this. All of it. The through thread so beautifully done. The poignant images. The wonderful picture of your mom in 1985. She was so present and vibrant. Thank you.

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Julie Zuckerman's avatar

Beautiful! Just sent this to a bunch of friends...

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Chick Morgan's avatar

I loved this essay. I am also a writer and singer-songwriter, now living in Texas after leaving for 43 years and living in New York (20 years) and Connecticut (20 years.) I also have a long-term love affair with The New Yorker. My subscription moved with me to Texas when I reluctantly moved back. It sat on the left side of my glass coffee table, along with The Atlantic, The Economist, and Vanity Fair. On the right side were Texas Monthly, Texas Highways, and Garden and Gun (ironically, a beautiful, extremely well edited magazine.) Contemplating the coffee table one day I realized that both stacks represented my new life in Texas and I wrote one of my first songs - "I Go Both Ways." They still don't quite know what to make of me down here. Thanks for the beautiful, heartfelt, writing.

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Blair Glaser's avatar

My kind of mother-daughter essay: poignant, relatable, funny. The kind I’ll take the time to read again.

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Sari Botton's avatar

<3

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Krista Parkinson's avatar

Wonderful piece! My mother gifted me Readers Digest. While that subscription ended many years ago, she is still here. Reading this article is a reminder to book a flight to see her sooner than later. Thank you!!

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Andrea Fisher's avatar

I so enjoyed this tender piece of writing. Thank You Erika!

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Diane Anderson-Minshall's avatar

Beautiful essay, I’m a caretaker slash the family’s in house death doula and this so resonated.

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