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Jan 20, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Yi Xue

Such a beautiful tribute to your “auntie mommy” and to a time gone by. I love it. It brought tears to my eyes. I can picture the Shanghai terrace house.

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Jan 20, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Yi Xue

Thanks for your reminisce of " Auntie Mommy". You were lucky to have had her in your life.

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Jan 23, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Yi Xue

I am so sorry for your loss during such a difficult time.

I grew up in a very small family and I LOVE reading about big family celebrations and imagining all the tastes, smells, sounds and people. I would love even more information about the food that you all ate!

Your description of your urge to send Auntie Mommy a WeChat message brought tears to my eyes.

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Thank you! This is not only a wonderful tribute to your Auntie-Mommy, but also an informative historical post. My first husband’s parents came to Jamaica from Canton in the 1930s, leaving two children behind, but were unable to reunite with them because of the revolution you write about here. This is why I’m always interested in hearing about others’ experiences. Thank you!

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Jan 20, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Yi Xue

SO beautiful, full of gorgeous details and vivid storytelling. Not everyone is lucky enough to have great female role models in their childhood, I loved reading about yours!

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Reminds me of my dear friend and law school classmate, Esther Yu. A bright woman, concert pianist, wonderful lawyer originally from Shanghai; sadly, she was murdered by her abusive husband. I still think of her.

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Thank you for highlighting your heritage in this wonderful memoir. This post caused me to look up Michelle Yeoh’s acceptance speech and then Kevin Huy’s. I loved the message in Waymond’s character scripting and want to watch the movie again now. They both made huge strides and brought great honor to Asian Americans and well-deserved and long overdue recognition.

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Jan 30, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Yi Xue

Thank you for sharing such a warm and intimate portrait, well-written and tender. Having lost my only Auntie just five days ago, this brings up so many memories for me, thank you for the reflections.

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Jan 22, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Yi Xue

Absolutely beautiful essay!

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Jan 21, 2023Liked by Yi Xue

Your story reminds me of my father's in many ways. He, too, was raised by his aunt, while his mother was working outside the home. But they left China after it fell to Communism, and the exact timeline is a mystery. Thanks for sharing your story. xo

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A loving recollection of a beloved family member. Through your writing, you keep the memory of her alive and share her with many who did not have the privilege. Thank you.

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Jan 20, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Yi Xue

Yi, that was a beautiful piece!.

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Beautiful to reminisce with you. Thank you for sharing your memories of Auntie-Mommy.

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Jan 20, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Yi Xue

I love this story, the photos, and the descriptions-all of it. Auntie Mommy was stunning. I love her silent rebellion to maintain her nails, her individuality and to pass on the importance of individuality to you and to us, your readers. Beautiful!

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Jan 20, 2023Liked by Sari Botton, Yi Xue

This is such a gorgeous honoring. Thank you so much for sharing.

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lovely , warm loving story.

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