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Jenny True's avatar

Really connected with this: “My sadness is more existentially profound, even as I feel personally less sad than ever.”

Diana M. Wilson's avatar

Loved EVERY. DARN. WORD.

Brodee Myers-Cooke's avatar

What a ride! Loved every last bit of this piece.

I’m four years ahead of Lauren, but I was there… all the way to almost 30. So virtually every word here sparked something deep in the memory files. What a bloody crazy time it was, and Lauren has captured it beautifully, under glass for all.

Thanks as always, Sari!

Kristin Ohlson's avatar

What a great interview! I so love this: "My sadness is more existentially profound, even as I feel personally less sad than ever." It's such an unnerving paradox to feel happy in the midst of this massive shitstorm. But it is nonetheless true.

China Martens's avatar

I love this! I'm going to be 60 in two months and love reading about my age. That skateboard photo - check! (I was timid but had one, remember the look).You make me wish for a fun luxurious book tour for writers in their 60s xo

Erika Andersen's avatar

Lauren - thank you for letting us see you so clearly! Here's to another great 20 or 30 years of "more life." xox

Ali's avatar

Without revealing the numbers, the vivaciousness of this interview would truly put this person in an ‘ageless’ category. So present, so fun! Clearly Good Company.

I get the feeling the next decade or three will be outstanding and full of exciting surprises.

Live long and prosper!

Kim Kimberlin's avatar

Loved this!

Brooke Berman's avatar

I needed this one today. Thank you!

Marisa Keller's avatar

Really enjoyed this!

Katia Noyes's avatar

So great! Thanks for interviewing this brilliant writer, very happy to see Kamikaze Lust has been re-issued.

Lauren Sanders's avatar

Katia!!! How are you?

Lane Scott Jones's avatar

I loved this. Lauren, I was so moved by your reflections on not having a good mental image for older lesbians living rich, full lives—and having to invent it as you go. I've only been out for a few years but I'm feeling that same hunger for "possibility models" that you mention here. I'm so happy to have found you and your work. Thank you for such a generous interview!

Sophie Berghouse, MD's avatar

Wow, so many pearls in this article. I am going to have to re-read and write some down.

Katherine Gleason's avatar

Such a fun ride. Thanks! Now I gotta reread Kamikaze Lust

ElizabethRoseG's avatar

Loved this! Really refreshing.

Kristen's avatar

Relieved to read I’m not the only one who feels anxious about bucket lists. Highly relatable read!