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Sari Botton's avatar

Oops—I meant to say I assumed I was to OLD for Heated Rivalry, not too YOUNG. I've fixed it.

Gina Fattore's avatar

No one is too old for hockey romance! My show that I’ve been working on for more than a year now is coming out later this year.

Sari Botton's avatar

I am so excited there’s a Gina Forttore-written show coming! Please be sure to alert me when it’s out!!! <3

Sari Botton's avatar

Just realized I need to rewatch Fleabag!!!

Leslie's avatar

The Good Place, Shrinking.

Practice single leg stance while brushing your teeth. Gets it in 2x a day, while you concentrate on 2 things at once. (Former PT, now retired, 70 y/o. I also do yoga weekly)

Prairie Librarian's avatar

In my mid-40s, I'm doing Bulgarian split squats against the bathtub rim while flossing, then one-legged calf raises while brushing. Getting in balance exercises while doing my dental hygiene has been a game changer and I evangelize about it to others. I'm so glad to see a retired PT suggest it! :)

Leslie's avatar

Counter top pushups, yoga chair pose, calf raises all can be done while waiting for the tea kettle to boil. I could create a whole program of no excuse exercises for people to do, when they’d say they didn’t have time

Dorothy Steinicke's avatar

Ted Lasso of course.

Sari Botton's avatar

Oh, right! And is there a new season coming?

Elizabeth Marro's avatar

Yes. But no date yet.

Elizabeth Marro's avatar

I forgot that one! of course! We've watched it twice through and save episodes for especially challenging evenings.

Jamie Nielsen's avatar

The Great British Baking show, where competitors help each other out in a pinch and diversity is celebrated, and Clarkson’s Farm!! Plenty of seasons of both, and the baking tent (or the farm) are so very comforting before bedtime. ❤️ Enjoy!

Prairie Librarian's avatar

And once you get through all the episodes of the Great British Baking Show, I can recommend the Great Canadian Baking Show, with similar feel-good vibes, inclusivity, and mutual support. 🧁

Jamie Nielsen's avatar

I am so excited to watch it! Grew up in Ann Arbor, MI, just over the bridge, and I truly love Canada. I’m looking forward to a cup of tea, fuzzy pants, and the GCBS this cold evening. 🙏 thank you!

Mary Scherf's avatar

Your letters are always interesting, and I'm glad your parents are okay. The practical information makes this letter even more valuable. A year ago, after hip replacement therapy due to arthritis, I started using trekking sticks for longer walks. For me, they offered better balance than a cane, and allowed me to move at a more satisfying pace. I decided not to give them up after reading somewhere that walkers using sticks can cover more ground faster and with less strain on joints.

Sari Botton's avatar

So glad you enjoy these! And that cool about the trekking sticks.

Elizabeth Marro's avatar

I also find that they add a little more of a cardiovascular workout which I appreciate.

Peter Moore's avatar

When I turned sixty, I actually had the thought: It’s now or never for me with yoga. So I began taking classes three days a week at the nearby rec center, and it has improved my life in so many ways. Stress relief of course, but I’m a better downhill skier now, I can crane my neck over both shoulders as needed while looking for road hazards when I drive, and my bouts of back pain are now few and far between. I also feel like it’s a down payment on better balance going forward. Thank you for that, grand tradition of yogis!

Sari Botton's avatar

Yes, yoga is so helpful. Brian and I just did this 30 minute routine this morning (we’ve been doing this one for decades, know it by heart): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEI9H2QZLBA

Ann Parrent's avatar

Train yourself to go slow whilst moving from sitting > standing > walking. It only takes a few extra seconds. Doing all three moves at once, like a youngster in a hurry, is an easy way to lose balance.

Later, when sitting again, you can stream Detectorists.

Jessica Handler's avatar

I started strength training a few months ago at a gym for women and female identified people, and one of the things I'm working on is balance (I've always had poor balance.) Calf raises 20x a day help. Also lifting builds core strength. And I've given up (mostly) my high heels and am pretty much living in Blundstones and a collection of vintage cowboy boots. My gym's IG account recently gave me a shoutout as a "60+ yogini turned lifter." The 60+ still wigs me out.

Kimberly Elkins's avatar

Last Tango in Halifax on Netflix! Fantastic writing and acting, starring Derek Jacobi, Sarah Lancashire and Nicola Walker.

Christa Hillhouse's avatar

My feel-good go-to show is Somebody Somewhere, even though it makes me cry.

Sari Botton's avatar

Love, love, love that show.

Lise's avatar

I also loved “Fisk”! Another great one is “Sort Of” (Canadian sitcom by Bilal Baig and Fab Filippo) - it’s the perfect comfort watch - you’ll laugh…you’ll cry… you’ll laugh some more

Elizabeth Marro's avatar

Fisk is the BEST! We've watched it a couple of times and still feel sad when it's over.

Sari Botton's avatar

I have to give that another try.

Gina Fattore's avatar

Both these shows are amazing!!💘

Karen Palmer's avatar

My favorite comfort watch of the last year was Pernille on Netflix, a half-hour show from Norway. It's similar to Better Things is some ways (single mom, daughters, aging dad) and is full of heart and humor. The parts that are melancholy or sad are completely earned.

Sari Botton's avatar

Oh, someone recently recommended Pernille! I’ll check it out. Thanks!

Martha Carapetyan's avatar

Somebody Somewhere. Outlander. Call the Midwife. Sex Education.

Also LOVED A Place to Call Home, and was also surprised by that

Sari Botton's avatar

Oh, I need to re-binge Somebody Somewhere. Love that show.

Martha Carapetyan's avatar

One of the loveliest friendships on tv EVER, right?

Bette's avatar

My husband's healthy and fit best friend died at 68 after a short fall from a ladder. He was replacing a ceiling light bulb, nothing major, but he hit his head as he fell. Being a guy and living alone, he shrugged it off, went to sleep that evening, and died in his sleep from a brain bleed. I think any fall where you hit your head should be evaluated by a doctor.

Sari Botton's avatar

Oh, no. So sorry to hear.

Rob Tourtelot's avatar

I'm so glad your folks are okay, Sari. It's such an upsetting thing when aging parents fall, which I went through with both of mine. Your mom looks in very good spirits! Such a sweet pic.

We run almost 1,000 EMS calls per year on our volunteer ambulance in Rhinebeck, and I'd guess maybe 25-30% of those are fall-related. I'm so happy you're posting these links to videos.

We've been thinking in our house about what we can do to keep better balance/mobility as we age. We're now both brushing our teeth with one leg up in a tree pose (it's an easy one to remember—Emma heard it on a podcast), and we switch sides from morning to evening. It kinda feels like something out of a Portlandia sketch, but maybe it'll help!

I noted a couple years ago the sit-to-rise test (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nm7roKZX7Lc), which I failed (due to poor flexibility!) It's apparently a decent indicator of aging and mobility, so one of my goals for 2026 is to see if I can progressively get a little closer to sitting/standing without using my hands.

Oh, and Catastrophe is so brilliant—though a bit dark, in the funniest possible way. We loved that show so much.

Sari Botton's avatar

Thank you, Rob. I read in either your newsletter or Emma’s about your losing both parents—so sorry to hear. This is very useful info. All of it. Thank you for sharing. Gonna try that tooth-brushing exercise…