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Michael Williams šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦'s avatar

Congratulations, Ruth. I’d wanted to be a writer from the age of 13. I published my book last October at age 72. Never too late.

maria heng's avatar

Yeah! Congratulations, Michael!

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Good for you! What’s the name of your book? Let the world know!

Michael Williams šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦'s avatar

The ABCs of Storytelling: Reflections of a Story Coach. Part memoir, part compendium of practical tips, techniques, and musings on the art of storytelling.

Janina Edwards's avatar

Thank you! This 64 year old is currently querying to agents for my caregiver memoir. You helped me persevere one more month.

Jennifer Silva Redmond's avatar

Don't give up, please. The world definitely needs a brilliant caregiver memoir.

maria heng's avatar

I hope to get to where you are, Janina, and am celebrating the completion of your memoir. All the very best finding the agent of your dreams and of getting your book out into the world!

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Keep going. It’s like hiking, one hill at a time, rest, repeat. You’ll get there.

Keith Wood's avatar

Well done Ruth, I started at 76 writing a novel and got it published and launched a couple of weeks ago. I'm 78 tomorrow and already.have two further drafts ready for when I have the money to publish. Already got a good review on Green Cat Books of Derby.

, England. ,So you are not alone, how many more septagenerians out there are novice authors , published or not. This is The Yorkshire Fenix from England in the UK signing off.

maria heng's avatar

Just loving the comments by so many even older than I and DOING it! The best of birthday wishes for your special day tomorrow, Keith. I sense an unstoppable spirit in you which I admire deeply. Way to go!

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

You’re in England! Wow. Don’t be shy - tell us the name of the novel. You never know. Maybe you can find a small press to publish the next ones for you so you don’t have to pay for printing.

Erika Andersen's avatar

Huge congratulations, Ruth! And what wonderful comments, as well. 😊

I’m 73, and my sixth book was just published two weeks ago. My first one came out just before I turned 55 - it truly is never too late!

In my latest book, The New Old: Crafting Your Best Later Life, I talk about the importance of continuing to envision the future you want to create in your 60s, 70s, 80s, and beyond. Brava to you for embodying that! šŸ˜ŠšŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ˜˜

maria heng's avatar

Wow! Way to go Erika! I'm inspired.

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Thank you Erika! Yes the comments have been so much more than I ever expected. And of course Oldster has such an amazingly supportive community. We lift each other up. And congrats on such a prolific output. Motivates me to keep going.

Erika Andersen's avatar

Yay! Here’s to your next project -

Kate Walter's avatar

Great piece, Ruth, about your long road to publication. Love the photos and I loved your novel. My first book (a memoir) came out when I was 66 and my second memoir dropped when I was 72.

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Thank you Kate! I do have one of your books. I’ll have to see which one I’m missing!

Debbie Weil's avatar

Absolutely love this interview, and the back story of @Ruth Bonapace’s new novel! Brava Ruth, at 70! what’s next??!

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Thank you Debbie. I’ve been doing essays (nonfiction) and have a rough draft of a novel whose characters hail from the Jersey City neighborhood in which Tina from The Bulgarian Training Manual grew up. But - it’s more of a drama dealing with people who were once in love and, you got it, reconnect late in life. Will see where it goes. And whether the publishing world wants a romance of 60-somethings.

Lisa Luminaire Intuitive's avatar

I was so confused as to who was 70 because I couldn’t see anyone who looked 70, wow! And congratulations šŸ™Œ

Alberta Nassi's avatar

So inspiring, Ruth! Brava! At 72, I was just accepted for the low-residency MFA inaugural program at the Jewish Theological Seminary.

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Oh my goodness!! And I thought I started my MFA late in life. I must share that I enjoyed almost every single workshop and formed lasting bonds with so many students and faculty. Especially those of us who had many years between BA and MFA. I also got to know great writers - some heroes of mine - I never would have met. I’m sure even with low residency you’ll find your circle of supportive peers and teachers that will keep you moving forward.

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Kirie Pedersen's avatar

My mom did a low-residency masters in her sixties. Not only did she thrive but she met all these great younger people who became friends. I really liked them all.

Elena Brunn's avatar

Well done, Ruth! All of it — your family, your business ventures, your MFA. While I used to shock people by telling them my age ("No! You don't look 70.), now when I say "79," they say "Ah." Thud. When, if ever, will I get my newly polished debut novel published? Will I still be alive? I'm focusing on what's just ahead of me, on next steps.

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

I hear you loud and clear! Yup. We just keep going. Focusing on what’s ahead is the only thing we can do. It’s easy to get lost in the past. I’m cheering for you. Sincerely. We live for as long as live whether we finish projects or not. So might as well keep at it.

Elena Brunn's avatar

Thanks. This means a lot.

Not The Enemy's avatar

So much in this post I could relate to: Ruth's journalist roots to her time as a stay-at-home mom, divorce, renewal. I'm 67 and just published my first novel. I hope to follow in her footsteps and have another one in the world by the time I turn 70. Happy book birthday month to The Bulgarian Training Manual!

Jennifer Silva Redmond's avatar

Sunshine Girl is a wonderful book!

Not The Enemy's avatar

Thank you so much, Jennifer, for your kind words!

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Thank you! What’s the name of the novel you just published? We can keep an eye out for it. Yes, it’s a happy book birthday. This baby just took a looong time to gestate.

Burnt Berry Sage's avatar

Thank you for sharing your story, Ruth. This is what I needed to read today. Congratulations! ā¤ļø

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Thank you for sharing that

Polly Walker Blakemore's avatar

No shame in age! Ever. I just got a book deal and I am 58. Maybe I can get another by the time I am 68! Always good to have goals. Thank you for telling your story.

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

My pleasure to do so. Congrats and you are so right. Good to have goals.

Nancy Christie—Still Writing's avatar

I released my first book at 50 and my first novel at 69. Now I’m up to 10 books total with more coming in my Midlife Moxie novel series. Never give up!

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Absolutely correct. You’re inspiring me to get to work finishing my next one.

Nancy Christie—Still Writing's avatar

What is so interesting is that I was scared and upset the closer I came to turning 70, but working on the novel series changed my outlook on aging. Now I prefer to think of it as next-staging!

Kris Troske's avatar

I am four months away from turning 70. Something about that number sounds more like seven years older than 69, rather than one. I won’t be writing, but your comment is a good reminder that my life is what I make of it. I am free to explore!

Nancy Christie—Still Writing's avatar

I know what you mean about the number. It just sounds so old!

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

I really think people need to have a purpose. Something to get excited about in the morning, to reach for, to do and finish. Could be a book, could be an amazing garden or a new career.

Susan Weis-Bohlen's avatar

Such a wonderful story and I sense there is a memoir in the mix! Congratulations!!

Marcelle Karp's avatar

Ordering this right now. I know, as a published writer myself, how important it is for us to support one another! Also: I so needed this post this morning.

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Thank you so much Marcelle. Let me know what you think of it. I hope you enjoy and LOL as you go along. And I’m glad the post came at a time when you needed it. Good book karma

Sandra Austin Mello's avatar

So many of us keep on putting one word after another! I love reading your journey and adore Sari for collecting these gorgeous stories!

Ruth Bonapace's avatar

Thanks Sandra. I do love this Substack and Sari’s careful curation and thoughtfulness.